Today I want to talk about why you need to overcome adversity. Why you need to go through hardship. Why you need to be challenged by obstacles.

Adversity builds you up into a person that is strong, resilient, and most of all very certain of himself.

But most people want to take the easy way out.

“Oh, I don’t want rejections.”

“I just want all women to like me.”

“I want to get this special girl.”

“I want to buy this program that promises a quick fix.”

“I want to take this boot camp that just makes everything so much easier.”

“I want to just be spoon fed all the knowledge so I can then magically get this one girl I really like.”

“I want a lot of girls to flock to me.”

Well, okay, let’s just say you find a genie that magically grants your wishes. All of a sudden you have girls that are hanging out with you! All of a sudden you’re surrounded by cute or hot girls.

Let’s even say that somehow the genie makes it so you have a girlfriend and she’s exactly what you want.

You think that is ideal, right?

Today I want to talk to you about rejection.

Now, this is a very important subject because a lot of guys avoid approaching women because they fear rejection. Most are paralyzed by it and it’s the main reason they don’t take any action.

I want to let you know that rejection is perfectly normal.

No matter how good your game gets, no matter what you learn, there’s nothing absolutely nothing that will help you avoid rejection! And I say this having been in the seduction community for over 18 years.

Even a guy with very good game, will still get rejected.

A lot of people don’t know this because the seduction gurus lie about it and say you can use “secret” techniques in order to avoid it. Their techniques actually lead you to even more rejection because when you use those techniques you become outcome dependent.

So what’s the REAL secret?

Today I’m going to tell you about what I learned from being in the seduction community for over 17 years.

Now, I’m not going to be going over techniques or strategies on picking up women. I’m going to be covering BIG picture stuff. These are important lessons that you’d normally learn over time, but I am going to freely share them with you because I think they will greatly benefit you on your journey.

I’m going to be going over 5 of them today and I think I’m going to do a part 2 in the future because I have other things I’ve learned that I want to share. Do read the entire article because they get better as I progress through them.

Ok so let’s go over lesson number 1!

When learning the rules of the dating game, you’ll be tempted to search for dating tips that focus on specific approaches, openers, routines, stories, or tactics. While these things can work to spark attraction, they won’t really help you transform into a man that will naturally attract women. I know this from personal experience.

Instead of wasting time on the superficial stuff, I recommend that you focus more on yourself and I encourage you to make a mental shift from relying on scripts or routines to incorporating more of your personality into your seductions. To help you with this transition, I have compiled a list of the things I believe will be most beneficial to you when you are learning to pick up girls.