When learning the rules of the dating game, you’ll be tempted to search for dating tips that focus on specific approaches, openers, routines, stories, or tactics. While these things can work to spark attraction, they won’t really help you transform into a man that will naturally attract women. I know this from personal experience.

Instead of wasting time on the superficial stuff, I recommend that you focus more on yourself and I encourage you to make a mental shift from relying on scripts or routines to incorporating more of your personality into your seductions. To help you with this transition, I have compiled a list of the things I believe will be most beneficial to you when you are learning to pick up girls.

I asked you guys to respond to the video I posted on masculinity and I have to say I’m pretty pleased with the responses. Before I go over how Louie could have dealt with the confrontation, I would like to take a moment to give him credit for a few things he did right.

At the beginning of the clip Louie and his date have just finished having dinner. When they come out of the restaurant, she compliments him on his selection and seems somewhat impressed that he “knows all the good places.” He doesn’t take it too seriously and makes a joke out of it saying, “I’ve been alive for a while and I like to eat.”

He asks her to grab a drink, but her attraction for him is kind of weak. At the same time, she has a genuine concern because she’s working in the morning – so she declines the drink offer. Louie could have given up here, but he persists and asks her if she wants to go grab some doughnuts.

In the next segment, we see them building rapport and becoming more comfortable with each other. They are laughing and she’s touching him. Things are going well and you can see her attraction for him increasing.

But then the high school jocks come in. They start making noise and then the confrontation takes place. So what could Louie have done differently to prevent the date from turning into a disaster?

I’ve been in and out of the dating scene for over fifteen years now and I continually see men making the same mistakes over and over and over and you guessed it – over again.

Most of them aren’t bad guys, but they are a little too naive and more than a bit misguided by the propaganda that is spread forth by our woman worshiping society. I’m talking to you Western guys!

I’m sick of good men flinging themselves off the proverbial dating cliff into the arms of loneliness, despair, and yes, even masturbation.

I want to lead them back on the path of hope and help them preserve not only their sanity but hopefully their relationships.

What can I say, I’m a humanitarian.

If you ever been flaked-on, dumped, or friend-zoned then this post might be just what you need to figure out what went wrong.

Are you guilty of making any of these dating mistakes?