Today I’m going to tell you about what I learned from being in the seduction community for over 17 years.

Now, I’m not going to be going over techniques or strategies on picking up women. I’m going to be covering BIG picture stuff. These are important lessons that you’d normally learn over time, but I am going to freely share them with you because I think they will greatly benefit you on your journey.

I’m going to be going over 5 of them today and I think I’m going to do a part 2 in the future because I have other things I’ve learned that I want to share. Do read the entire article because they get better as I progress through them.

Ok so let’s go over lesson number 1!

So today I want to talk about how you can be the kind of asshole or jerk that women love. There are two kinds of assholes, the caring asshole and the uncaring asshole.

The caring asshole, and this is where 99% of nice guys end up after deciding they are going to be asshole for a change, goes from being nice to being an asshole by becoming misogynistic, insulting women, putting them down, acting overly macho, etc.

Now even though a guy may be acting like this, he still cares what these women think of him. He still cares about getting these women to date him or to like him. He still wants validation from women. The women’s reactions are important to him. So he’ll insult a woman hoping that may get her to like him. If a woman rejects him, he will be quick to call her a “bitch” or to insult her back. Rejections mess with his internal state. He is not emotionally stable.

When learning the rules of the dating game, you’ll be tempted to search for dating tips that focus on specific approaches, openers, routines, stories, or tactics. While these things can work to spark attraction, they won’t really help you transform into a man that will naturally attract women. I know this from personal experience.

Instead of wasting time on the superficial stuff, I recommend that you focus more on yourself and I encourage you to make a mental shift from relying on scripts or routines to incorporating more of your personality into your seductions. To help you with this transition, I have compiled a list of the things I believe will be most beneficial to you when you are learning to pick up girls.

The term masculinity is defined as “possessing qualities or characteristics considered typical of or appropriate to a man.”

But what are the characteristics of a masculine man?

Are we talking about being able to change the oil on your car or knowing how to throw a football?

Not really.

Manly characteristics aren’t that superficial. They go much deeper and unless you get a good grasp of them, you’ll never know what attracts women to men. So what are these attractive characteristics that a masculine man would possess?

I’m dedicating today’s article to a friend of mine, well he’s more like an acquaintance. I’ll call him Tom, although that’s not his real name (I always protect the innocent).

Tom is fit, good-looking, stylish, and rich. A real catch by most women’s standards. Tom doesn’t have to learn how to attract women. For him attraction happens naturally.

So why the hell am I still talking about Tom then?

Well, even though Tom has a lot of things going for him and he rarely makes any of the traditional dating mistakes, he is completely oblivious to the signals women send his way. He can’t ever figure out when a girl likes him.

Most of the time, he walks away from gorgeous women that are dying to have his babies because he doesn’t think they are into him. Tom, like a lot of other men, has trouble spotting women’s indicators of interest (which are usually subtle, so you have to keep an eye out). If you are like ole Tom, it’s your lucky day!

Today I’m going to go over the signs that a girl likes you.

Below you will find a video that explains a few of the signs of attraction that women display when they meet a man they like.

Under the video, I’ve added several more signals women send out when they are interested in you. Enjoy!