Today I want to talk about why you need to overcome adversity. Why you need to go through hardship. Why you need to be challenged by obstacles.

Adversity builds you up into a person that is strong, resilient, and most of all very certain of himself.

But most people want to take the easy way out.

“Oh, I don’t want rejections.”

“I just want all women to like me.”

“I want to get this special girl.”

“I want to buy this program that promises a quick fix.”

“I want to take this boot camp that just makes everything so much easier.”

“I want to just be spoon fed all the knowledge so I can then magically get this one girl I really like.”

“I want a lot of girls to flock to me.”

Well, okay, let’s just say you find a genie that magically grants your wishes. All of a sudden you have girls that are hanging out with you! All of a sudden you’re surrounded by cute or hot girls.

Let’s even say that somehow the genie makes it so you have a girlfriend and she’s exactly what you want.

You think that is ideal, right?

A few months ago, I was in JFK airport in New York when I decided to approach this really beautiful girl.

I hate to use ratings (aside from clickbait titles ; ) because I feel ratings kind of mess you up when you start using them (it’s a validation seeking slippery slope). But just to help you understand her beauty – she was movie star hot. She could have easily been on the cover of Maxim magazine. A really attractive girl.

She was with her mother and her little brother. And she was saying goodbye to her best friend who was going to Istanbul.

I saw her as I was waiting in line to check-in my bags.  Her small group was waiting in line at the other check-in nearby. I’d say I was about 10 feet away from them.

She was dressed in tight jeans and a short tight shirt that was showing a bit of her sexy flat stomach. She had perfect proportions. A Coke bottle shape. Just ridiculous!

The hot babe and her friend were hugging. It looked like her friend and the friend’s mother were leaving and going to Istanbul for a while.  They had several huge pieces of luggage.

At first, I hesitated because I didn’t want to go in and interrupt their emotionally charged hug. I wanted to be somewhat calibrated.

Another reason I hesitated is that sometimes these really hot girls still intimidate me. Even though I think I’ve come such a long way and I don’t care what happens most of the time, sometimes these really hot ones affect me. Some of them send me straight into my head.

I believe the reason is because I have not approached and slept with enough of them. They are rarer. This was the type of girl that if she walked through a restaurant, everybody would turn their heads to follow her. At least every guy with a working penis.

As soon as they finished hugging, I went in.