When learning the rules of the dating game, you’ll be tempted to search for dating tips that focus on specific approaches, openers, routines, stories, or tactics. While these things can work to spark attraction, they won’t really help you transform into a man that will naturally attract women. I know this from personal experience.

Instead of wasting time on the superficial stuff, I recommend that you focus more on yourself and I encourage you to make a mental shift from relying on scripts or routines to incorporating more of your personality into your seductions. To help you with this transition, I have compiled a list of the things I believe will be most beneficial to you when you are learning to pick up girls.

I wrote this article a few years ago to inspire a few of my single friends to go out and meet women. I believe it can benefit you if you’re still learning how to approach women. This was mainly written for guys who are trying to meet women in bars, clubs, and lounges so please keep that in mind while you’re reading.

If you are new to the approaching women thing, you’re probably wondering what the best approach is. Should you go direct or indirect? Should you come in fast or slow? Should you use something rehearsed or be spontaneous?

Well to tell you the truth, there is no ONE correct way. But if you want to increase your chances of success…go in with masculine presence and power!

Go in STRONG!

Most of the time, I approach fast and strong. There is no, “Let me get the angle right” or “Let me think of the perfect thing to say” or “Let me time this just right”

Nope!

None of that!

I go in hard and strong. Like a F*%!ng Japanese kamikaze ready to die in the blaze of glory. No worries…no excuses…no remorse!

What’s the worst that can happen?

Rejection?!?